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The history of my toys

Posted on February 7, 2020February 12, 2020

The history of my toys

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The flower is ok. I remember my friend Melissa fro

The flower is ok. I remember my friend Melissa from @thegoodseedto telling me that the ants are necessary for the flower to bloom. They are attracted to this waxy thing the buds have and without the ants gobbling it up and taking it off, the flower wouldn’t bloom.
I thought of using it as a metaphor of #motherhood and how challenges we are faced with help us bloom and become. It’s a beautiful metaphor but the truth is this year of being a mom has been the most challenging one yet.
I’ve had to advocate and to fight with my whole being for the world in which we live to be a loving place for my dragons.
I don’t want ants and more challenges, I don’t want to cry because my kids are being rejected, failed and blamed by the people and institutions that are supposed to nurture them. I don’t want to have to fight, every day, for them to have a good day.
Yes, the ants are a nice metaphor for motherhood, but the truth is, the world needs to make the coming off the wax an easier adventure.My kids are neurodiverse, one of them is on the spectrum. That means that we need to adapt every single thing we do, every interaction with the world, so that they’re ok.
We don’t need more challenges, we have plenty. We don’t need to adapt. The world needs to learn that different brains exist and different ways of being are what nurtures humanity.I want to bloom at my own pace. I want to take that wax off at my own pace. I don’t want judgment. I don’t need it. Neither do my kids.Today I was celebrated by having time to myself, to nurture myself, to take that wax off by doing things I love, by having quiet and doing a @onepeloton workout and then taking a long shower without hurry.
I am blooming with empathy and love. I am being taught by my kids to see the world in a different way. I am teaching those around me how to be better for kids like mine.Let’s take away challenges and be more supportive of all parents, especially those with children who are different.
#happymothersday#momofautism #momofautismchild #momofneurodiverse #momofneurodivergentchild #challengingparenting #bloomingasaparent #bloomingmom #metaphorsofmeaning #metaphorsoflife #asdmom #asdmomlife #mothersday2022

Colors bring me joy. When the outside world is scr

Colors bring me joy.
When the outside world is screaming, when the outside world is hurting and everything feels completely out of control, go for colors.
It was a spur of the moment choice but also not. It was a need I had to feel some joy while so much heartache was happening around me. I’ve been dealing with a personal situation for months which has left me depleted, full of despair, anger and sadness. So: colours!My kids believe it was their fairy who came at night and with her giant paintbrush did this. I’m happy to believe it too.Big changes for small changes. Big shifts for small shifts. Colors colors colors.
I can tell you that the amount of smiles I get now have very much increased, even masked ones.
I can tell you I get nods of recognition from fellow humans who also believe that small/ big changes bring joy to difficult times.I am in awe that I took the plunge. I am in awe for the fabulous human at @bobandpaigesalon that made it happen .If you see me down the street, say hi, and tell me something wonderful that happened to you today.#bestocolorist #rainbowhair #tainbowhairformentalhealth #colorformentalhealth #bigchangestartssmall #smallshifts #colortherapy #bobandpaige #colorgalore🌈🌈🌈 #alltherainbows

One of my biggest life loves have always been book

One of my biggest life loves have always been books. In my olden single days I preferred to cozy up with a book than go out on a date… I often still do.
Books take you places you never imagined existed. Books show you thoughts and worlds you wouldn’t have had access to any other way.it has always been a dream of mine to create a book club. And it’s finally here!
I partnered up with the amazing @drlisawatsonnd , am exceptional person and a good friend, to bring you “The Fire & Ice book club”What better way to celebrate yourself this Valentines than to sign up to a book club??All sign up details are in my bio and yes, most books are juicy and sexy and will create lots of thoughts and discussion.#bookclub #comeasyouare #fireandicebookclub #readingwithfriends #readingissexy #booksaresexy #readme

Just finished listening/ reading to one of the mos

Just finished listening/ reading to one of the most courageous and powerful books I’ve ever read.
Thank you @taranajaneen for your honesty, candor, humanity, courage, and for seeing and acknowledging all of the terrible experiences little girls and women live through in an attempt to erase us. Thank you for the creation of #metoo because it gave me the courage, among thousands, to say it too, out loud and without shame.
I hope your voice keeps getting louder.
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This is a book that should be a required read for all of us. Healing trauma is a lifetime journey, #taranaburke paved the road for us so it would be easier and we would not feel Alone.
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It’s so so important to know the origin of one of the most powerful movements of #violenceagainstwomen . Black and BIPOC voices have been silenced for so so long, and that is not ok.
The #metoomovement was not created in 2018, #taranaburke started the movement years back, as a survivor herself and as an incredible grassroots and community advocate, trying to heal her community.
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You are a hero.#requiredreading #traumahealing #traumarecovery #survivornotvictim #therealmetoomovement #metoomovement #feministreading #blackfeminist #blackfeminism

This. Is. Life.With privilege. With heat. With a

This. Is. Life.With privilege. With heat. With a home. With our health.
Without school. Without social interaction for our children. Without real plans from the government to make smart decisions for our future. Without time or space for us, parents, because someone needs to be there while they try to figure out zoom, and while they try to figure out this is life right now, and also, their meetings are half hour long and then what? You need to do the rest yourself, including sensory inputs, making them move their bodies, etc.
This. Is. Life.I no longer even imagine space for myself. Breathe. Flow.
Become will have to come later.How are you doing?#onlineschool #onterrible #onlineschooling #neurodiversekids #neurodiverseandonline #motheringneurosiversekids #pandemicparenting

I’m 40! Which felt like the perfect time to brin

I’m 40!
Which felt like the perfect time to bring back Kelvis! Because what can bring more joy than going to the ballet, or dinner or anywhere else dressed up as a sparkly Elvis? (Thank you @flashdesignco #houseofsassandmagic for making it happen!)I’ve had a really difficult two years, the most in my life. I don’t want to make this post on all I’ve learnt and growth and blah blah.
I want joy, and kindness and gratefulness. That’s my 40th. That’s today and that’s what I want to continúe embodying as life throws me new journeys to go on, new challenges and new surprises.I am grateful for the kind wonderful friends I have around me, the new ones and the old ones. I am grateful for the unique little humans I get to parent and for the partner I have to do that with (and who did his best so I could sleep until 9am!!!)so joy, kindness and gratefulness. And lots of sparkles and bling.
Happy birthday to me!

I'm so excited. Can you tell?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

I'm so excited. Can you tell?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I turn 40 in less than ten days!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Aaaaah! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I know! Yes, I do look older, it's #parentinginpandemic times that done it. Lol⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Ok, no but seriously. I can go back in time, or try to, to imagine imagining myself at this age. Who was I supposed to become? what was I supposed to have done?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I am exactly who I was supposed to be. I am all the struggles and the adventures, all the growth, the learning, the falling down, the laughter and the reading into the night. I am a lot of crying and some regrets, I am friendships found and lost, I am a parent.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I have not become who I was meant to be because I am still becoming.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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And part of this becoming is the constant learning and growth I have done in the past few years. I invest in myself. With courses, workshops, coaching programs, therapy, etc. I invest in myself because I know I want to become the best version of myself and to do so I need help. I want to learn and to grow.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I have never regretted investing in myself because it helps me become.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Because of this I have decided to do a one time offer. I turn 40 on the 21st. So 4 people will have a 21% discount on my program. I never do this and I won't do this again. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
It is time to invest in yourself.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Book in bio or send me a DM. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Today has been a spectacular Day. Today I went to

Today has been a spectacular Day. Today I went to @secretsfromyoursister for the first time, and it will not be my last.
For the past 7 years my body has been in flux, it has made humans, feed humans, over and over again. Two years ago I stopped nursing for the final time. And then I waited to see what my new breasts would be like. They are not the same, they are smaller and lower, the tissue at the top basically disappeared. And the box of lingerie pre babies has stayed put in the basement.
I’ve been so uncomfortable with my breasts, those perfect ones that I could waltz around without any support, those that had the fame of perfection in my university days.
Add to it that it’s also been pandemic time, so any kind of bra I could get has been online and mostly ill fitting. But I did not know that until today.
I’ve had breasts now more if my life than not and I have never had an experience like today. Today I felt seen and appreciated and with the right support (pun totally intended).
My unhappiness with my frontside situation seems to be evaporating. I had forgotten what nice and well fitted lingerie could make me feel, it’s been that long.
Gone is the pile of items that no longer serve, swipe for just a few goodies I got today.
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You may see me in sweatpants, but underneath, it’s all lace and s:xiness baby!
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What makes you feel absolutely incredible? Seen? Sensual? Delicious? Like the goddess you are?
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Thank you @your_shop_girl for the recco, abs @secretsfromyoursister was well worth the wait. I’ll be back for that black one with the buttons!#buylocal #sexyunderneath #lingerieforme #eroticexpert #eroticintelligence #goddess #buylocaltoronto #supportlocal

I did something absolutely crazy. And yet, it feel

I did something absolutely crazy. And yet, it feels so comfortable, so easy, so true.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I did something I had always wanted to do. I've always, always wanted to have blue hair (so much so that my mother, who doesn't precisely share the same memory I do for my desires and dreams, said so when I called her).⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Why now? Perhaps it's the fact that I have short hair so it will outgrow quickly in case I want to. Or perhaps it's because in less than a month I am approaching a really big birthday. A big one.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Or, you know, #pandemictimes ask for #pandemicmeasures. And if I'm ever going to do something like this, now is when.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Or perhaps it was simply time.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
So here I am, with blue hair.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
And you know what? It feels so comfortable. It feels so me.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
It actually feels like I have shedded a piece of my skin that didn't quite fit me anymore and underneath, I had blue hair.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I told my kids that I had ran into fairies and this is what happened, a friend of them asked me if I caught a fairy in the process!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I did, I caught myself. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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It is when we go into an uncomfortable state, into shedding that skin that still belongs to us but we have no need for anymore, that is when transformation happens, or, sometimes, that is when we can truly see ourselves for who we have become.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
We just couldn't see it before with all the layers of the past us on top.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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What have you done lately that's made you extremely uncomfortable but also took you to a truer sense of self?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Tell me.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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#transformationhappens #eroticexpert #bluehair #metamorphosisinsideandout #innermetamorphosis #pandemicblues #wecandobravethings #eroticintelligence #eroticself #sexed #sexualeducation #femaleempowerment #womenentrepeneur #sexymamma #holisticsexcoach #holisticcoach #eroticexpert #femaledesire #selfcarepractice #selfcareessentials #rediscoveringme #eroticselfdiscovery

What is your love language? Do you know what those

What is your love language? Do you know what those are?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
They are the ways that make you feel loved, and the ways you love. They are not necessarily the same. They are divided into five, and then any combination of those five: ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
- words of affirmation (you need to be told how awesome and #badass and absolutely gorgeous you are)⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
- Physical Touch (toucha toucha touch me)⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
- Quality time (not just running errands and talking logistics, but actual spending time together)⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
- Receiving gifts ('case diamonds are a girls' best friend)⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
- Acts of service (doing, being done, all sorts of acts)⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Sometimes the incompatibility between what you consider your way of loving and the way your partner wants to be loved, and the lack of this communication, can cause lots of hassle and issues.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Other times you and your partner have an understanding but after life happens, (i.e. kids), things change.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Same thing happens to seduction!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Once upon a time a bunch of flowers and a dinner date were all you needed to get you into the juiciest of moods. Nowadays having dinner ready, kids in bed, kitchen cleaned, laundry folded and garbage taken out is the juiciest of the juices of the yummiest.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Get it?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
But, how can you ask fo what you want if you don't know yourself? How can you ask for what you need if you've never asked yourself.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
It all starts there.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
It all starts with you, with your own exploration so that it can translate into the external.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Have your love and seduction languages changed with time?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I want to know! #eroticintelligence #eroticself #sexed #sexualeducation #femaleempowerment #womenentrepeneur #sexymamma #holisticsexcoach #holisticcoach #eroticexpert #femaledesire #selfcarepractice #selfcareessentials #rediscoveringme #eroticselfdiscovery #lovelanguages #lovelanguagesbelike #seductionlanguages

I bought myself jewelry. Of course I’ve done it

I bought myself jewelry. Of course I’ve done it before, but usually just trinkets, beautiful, inexpensive things with which to adorn myself.
Now I bought a real piece of gold rose dragon. It’s to celebrate my new business @granoladragona and all the craziness that had emerged from running two very different businesses simultaneously. All the growth I’ve had to do in record time, all the knowledge I’ve had to acquire…
But more than anything, all the support I’ve had. From the moment I decided to create the business, all I’ve heard around me has been so incredibly positive and supportive that I have had very few doubts (except when I’m bagging granola at midnight and I’m exhausted).So I bought myself a piece of jewelry to celebrate myself and the incredible community I have around me. I bought to pamper myself, to connect with myself.So I bought myself a piece of jewelry. To remind myself of so many things, especially what a fucking #badassbosslady I am.The dragon is from @animal.stone#baddassery #icandoitall #imsurroundedbymagic #magicpeople #newbusiness

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Oh so much. So freaking much. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Your pleasure, your desire, your s3xuality are inherent parts of who you are. Clients usually come to me and say, well, but it doesn't affect the rest of my life, so can't I just leave it alone?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
And I reply: but it does! it does affect your whole damn life. Can't you see it? Not being happy in the bedroom affects your work, affects the kind of parent you are, it affects how you sleep, it affects your health... It is all connected!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
We are not compartmentalize beings. We are holistic creatures that ebb and flow within the gazillion roles we have. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Think about it: if you are unhappy at work, are you cranky at home? If you eat the wrong foods for your body, do you feel like wanting to have a romp on the mattress? If you haven't moved your body in ages, do you want to run around in the playground? If you feel uncertain within your success, do you feel awkward with you're relationships?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
It. Is. All. Connected.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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That is why I work holistically and that is why it is so damn important to focus on your erotic self, to uncover and rediscover your self intimacy. You cannot even believe the kind of butterfly effect it has on the rest of your life.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Don't believe me? book an 'awaken' session. Link in bio. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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#eroticintelligence #eroticself #sexed #sexualeducation #femaleempowerment #womenentrepeneur #sexymamma #holisticsexcoach #holisticcoach #eroticexpert #femaledesire #selfcarepractice #selfcareessentials #rediscoveringme #eroticselfdiscovery #selfintimacy #intimacyintelligence

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